10/14/2001 Auditorium -- Lower Level (OOC) A small auditorium with steeply rising seats surrounds the podium. At the podium is a lectern for the speaker and a leather chair for the moderator. Players: Ruhail Elsa Tazra's Mobile Listener Smurf Galen Martin Marco Caro Erich Tazra Augie Ylara Objects: README FIRST Exits: Double Doors leads to Lower Lobby -- Lower Level (OOC) Lilith is about to join your location. Lilith has arrived. Smurf has left. Tazra's Mobile Listener has left. Smurf has arrived. Tazra drops Smurf. Lilith says, "Is everyone here...?" Layard walks in from Lower Lobby through the Double Doors. Layard has arrived. Emylie walks in from Lower Lobby through the Double Doors. Emylie has arrived. Smurf has left. Emylie waves. Layard says, "Sorry if we are late...We had to finish up a scene." Emylie whispers to Layard, "You forgot to button... Oh!" Emylie says, "Just kidding." Galen is now set 'Out-of-Character.' Ylara wiats quietly Lilith grins. "Quite alright Layard, Emylie, welcome! I think we'll give a few more folks a couple more minutes to hop on up.... meanwhile... let me get my notes in order here..." Emylie takes the empty seat next to Caro. Antiochus has arrived. Tazra sits in back Emylie waves Tazra waves back Antiochus has left. Sveena walks in from Lower Lobby through the Double Doors. Sveena has arrived. Lilith takes her place, and taps on the mic. "I guess it wouldn't be very polite of me if I didn't start things off, first and foremost, with a big 'welcome!' and a 'thanks!'. Tonight's little get-together is all about Protocol, and Diplomacy, and I think we'll go ahead and jump right on into it. Most of my comments I've scripted out in advance, but I've planned for discussion areas for us, too, so, do keep your eyes open -- I won't be talking at you for the entire session here today. And I **promise** I will not quote the entire Protocol guide at you!" Lilith says, "And, speaking of audience participation... your comments and questions are absolutely welcome, but outside of the times when I've opened up the floor for discussion, please do page Galen to get into the queue for your question or comment." Elsa applauds politely and looks sideways for a moment. Lilith pokes Galen. "Psst... you awake there?" Lilith grins. "So, now that the fine print is out of the way, here we go! I'm calling this session 'Protocol and Diplomacy: Don't Leave Home Without It'." Lilith says, "While we're warming up... would anyone care to take a stab at explaining what the difference is between protocol, and etiquette? Or how are they the same? Why do they go hand in hand? (this is... free-form discussion... no need to spam Galen to death... yet...)" Ylara says, "May I attempt?" Lilith nods. "Please do, Ylara.." Ylara says, "Ok Well Protocol is more the form of useing set guidlines when dealign with toehrs on a very political basis. It would be best exmapled as in what all are expected to do when in court and dealing with the emperor." Lilith nods. Lilith says, "And etiquette...?" Ylara says, "Etiquette is the use of proper mannors and a show of respest for others. It would like a harkonnen would show a cold like for an Ateidies when meeting to discuss difference that the hosues may need to agree on." Ylara says, "Sorry for the short version." Elsa would like to add without attempting to spam : "That means that is it is proper manners for anybody to spit on the floor when visiting the Harkonnen, for example, that also is considered good etiquette, although bad elsewhere." Lilith nods. "Ok... To put that a little differently, then... By definition, protocol is the code of conduct, the forms of ceremony and etiquette observed by diplomats and nobility in a society where such rites and details are law. Etiquette, however, is the mark of fine breeding, and education. It is what labels one as belonging to the upper levels of the faufreluches. Without etiquette, there would hardly be any protocol." Shane walks in from Lower Lobby through the Double Doors. Shane has arrived. Lilith says, "Ok... now this one's a little harder. Can anyone define what the faufreluches is?" Layard says, "I can, if I may." Lilith nods. "Sure thing, Layard.." Layard says, "Well, it is basically the ridgid rule of caste distinction within the Imperium. The whole idea is based upon the quote...and I am trying to remember the Dune Glossary...'A place for every man and a man in every place.'" Lilith nods, "Precisely, Layard! The Faufreluches is a complex feudal order, and the prevailing social order of the Imperium.. basically, as Layard said.. a caste system." Ruhail says, "But not without some measure of upward mobility." Lilith says, "True... but it depends on the Emperor's mood on the day the request for that shiny new title lands in front of him..." Erich winks and nods sagaciously. ;) Lynna walks in from Lower Lobby through the Double Doors. Lynna has arrived. Tazra wonders and writes in a notepad Lilith mutters something quietly about temperamental stiff-necked royalty, and continues, "If you have not already done so, I would highly recommend that you all be familiar with the faufreluches and who falls where. It is reasonable to expect that folks would be educated pretty much in detail on it, and you should know without a doubt where you fall on the pyramidal structure in relation to someone else. Those who are really well educated would be able to look at someone from another culture, and tell by their dress and mannerisms where they fall in the faufreluches. You see, it's the faufreluches which sets the pecking order, and without the faufreluches, we would have no need for protocol, and no need for etiquette." Erich says, "For instance, he refused the Venhei their title for a while precisely because he didn't like Bulova, plain and simple. Was tough noogies for them, but c'est la vie in the Padishah Imperium." Sveena walks to the south and passes through the Double Doors. Sveena has left. Lilith nods to Erich. "I seem to recall other instances of requests for titles being put aside... simply due to plain annoyance..." Shane notes I still don't have mine simply cause I thought I was bieng funny :-) Bad to piss off the emperor. Ruhail says, "Ahh, the vaunted Imperial whim." Tazra raises her hand to ask a questiom Ophelia ooopses quietly. "I knew I forgot something." Erich nods. "Yep. Such is a good example of how protocol and etiquette are of utmost importance. Piss off someone important, and you're either dead or immediately shoved to the bottom of the totem pole." Lilith says, "Yes, Tazra?" Tazra says, "so the faufreluches is basicly the "ranking system of the imperium?" Layard does not mean to rush up the scrolling here, "Yes. It reminds me of that old British axiom used during the feudal ages. The Emperor promises to protect all. The Dukes promise to protect the king. The Barons promise to protect the Dukes...so on and so on and so on." Lilith nods to Tazra. "The game files go into great detail on the faufreluches, and that's at 'ICInfo Faufreluches.' They are also covered in the new Protocol and Diplomacy Handbook, which is posted to the DuneIII web site." Tazra says, "thanks." (OOC) Layard says, "Err not the Emperor...King I am sorry..." Lilith says, "Do we have any last questions or comments on this topic... or are we ready to move on?" Elsa says, "I do have a question" Lilith says, "Shoot, Elsa.." Tazra pulls out a lasgun Erich says, "Please stop with the spam, Tazra. Thanks. :)" Elsa says, "As someone's standing in the Faufreluches is defined in various ways, does the higher standing count as the valid one when someone holds more positions in various areas ? Like, a noble priest ? His nobility ovverrules the priestly 'class'' he would hold ?" Lilith says, "Oooh... good question..." Erich lifts his hand, and could attempt an answer? Lilith says, "I would say... ok, Erich can answer..." Erich says, "The higher title/distinction always holds precedent. Many would have multiple titles, Count of This and Duke of That, but it is the most elevated/distinguished that they are known by, and treated in the bounds of the faufreluches." Lilith nods. "What I was going to say. Ylara has a comment..? Do go ahead. That'll be the last one before we move on to the next topic. We can always revisit any questions or comments you had at the end. Please keep them handy!" Ruhail reconnects. Be /right/ back. Ruhail has disconnected. Elsa says, "Thank you." Ylara says, "Actually Erich did take my comment well enough not to add to it. :)" Lilith says, "Actually, I'll let one more in then. Layard? Then that one really is the last on this section..." Layard nods, "Yes I was going to add on to what Erich said. Some times nobles have what are basically courtesy titles. Such as me...I have a courtesy title by the name of 'Most Pious Lord' which was inherited by me from a staunch Orange Catholic Great Grandfather. Even though it is a long title...it doesn't do anything. Its glitter that looks good on paper basically, but it does not give me much power when it comes to Court issues." Erich says, "Money and Power talk, and BS walks, to wit. :)" Layard says, "Basically." Lilith nods. "Good questions, great comments, everyone... moving right along.... Next topic: the Imperial Presence..." Lilith winks. "I can hear you oooh-ing and aaah-ing already. But seriously, this is an important section. No pressure or anything, but... there is nowhere else on Kaitain where a blunder in protocol and etiquette could possibly cause such a stir, or even so much trouble. (And, as mentioned in Ophelia's RP101 seminar, trouble can be a good thing -- don't forget that it is ok to lose, or be in trouble. It can be quite fun, actually, to try and weasel your way out of a tight situation without losing too much in the long run.)" Lilith says, "So... what exactly is the Imperial Presence, anyway? It refers to a space one is never to enter, leave, cross, or otherwise breach in any way without express permission when in audience or court with the Emperor. As an example, for court, this area would be the dais, the area immediately in front of the throne, and the central walkway leading up to the throne from the entrance of the Selamlik." Lilith says, "There are three big, big, big (did I say big?) no-no's when in the Imperial Presence..." Lilith says, "Don't turn your back on the Emperor. When you've finished your say in front of him, after an audience, you should back away carefully. This is interesting for those watching, because you never know when a heel might catch on a rug and someone might fall on their bum in front of the man up on the throne. Oh, did I say that out loud? Sorry. Anyways, backing away. Yes, back away a few steps, and then turn to get back to your place, or the door, whichever you prefer after your basting, er, I mean, audience." Lilith wiggles her eyebrows. Lilith says, "Next... Don't expect to hand anything directly to the Emperor, either. Nothing is ever handed directly to him. A page, or Noukker, will take whatever it is from you to hand to him. It's that personal space thing, the Imperial Presence. The man likes his space. But all joking aside, it's also a security issue, too. If you're handing off a bomb, someone else will take the hit, theoretically." Ruhail has connected. Lilith says, "And last, but certainly not least..." Lilith says, "It is the single greatest breach of manners and protocol to look the Emperor directly in the eyes. Gazes should remain lowered at all times, and, depending upon one's station, that point would be somewhere between one's own feet, a space between there and the Emperor's feet, or at the Emperor's feet. An even bolder focal point would be at a medal or other object on the Emperor's person." Lilith grins. "I mean, he's handsome and all, and he does have a nice twinkle in his eyes, but... just don't go there. So... any questions at this point? Don't forget to page Galen to get into the queue..." Erich chuckles and winks. "Flattery will get you everywhere, Lil." Lilith says, "Oyes. And speaking of.. Erich, you're first with a question or comment." Erich says, "Yep. I just wanted to echo you, and stress just how ... dangerous it can be to do anything to slight the Emperor. :) While you are in Court, and arguably anywhere on Kaitain though some would throw a fit at the suggestion, you can be arrested/tried/executed/tortured without recourse or trial unless you're a Siridar. Court in particular is a very public place, and the slightest diminishment of the Imperial presence would result in dire consequences. There have been 'casualties' in the past in those who have dared to offend His Majesty. One of our most blue-blooded Corrinos, in particular, was publically executed for just a slight, flippant comment to the Emperor." Lilith noddles. "Good point. Next... Galen." Galen has a question as to how the handling of gifts, "As you mentioned all gifts will be transfered to the Emperor via a Noukker or page boy. How should that be handled in a pose? Should the person pose the hand off themselves or wait for either the Emperor or Emperess to do so?" Lilith is going to ask Erich to answer that one... I think it's mostly a personal preference type thing.. Erich says, "Go ahead and pose it being handled to a Noukker. If it's a box or something covered or obscure, make it known in the pose what is uncovered." Galen nods. Erich says, "But I must stress, that you're only authorized to pose Noukkers to the extent of receiving and displaying the gift, handing it to the Emperor/Empress if it checks out safe. They're dangerous NPCs. :)" Lilith nods. "Alrighty then... I think the next person in the queue was Tazra?" Tazra says, "What if your house's point of view, disagrees with the emperor's, what would be a good way to persent your argument (or would it be wise to even present it at all) and address him without bieng slain immediatly or exiled?" Shane laffs. Ylara has disconnected. Emylie has disconnected. Lilith says, "There are all sorts of outlets for a disagreement in principles with the Emperor... one of them being the Landsraad, or discourse amongst your fellow house members. But to basically tell him he's wrong? Not a good idea." Emylie has connected. Lilith says, "That would be one of those 'career-limiting moves'." Tazra says, "thats what I thought so dont bring it up in hus presence correct?" Lilith says, "Not unless you are authorized to speak on behalf of your house." Tazra says, "ok. thanks" Lilith says, "Ok... Our next section is on honorifics..." Erich cracks his knuckles. "You even have to be careful what criticism you air of the Emperor in private. If he gets wind of it, you're likely to end up in trouble. Take that sentiment and magnify it a hundred times and then you know the gravity of voicing disagreement in Court." Asaf'nor walks in from Lower Lobby through the Double Doors. Asaf'nor has arrived. Lilith nods to Erich. Lilith says, "Before I get into the Your Grace's and Your Excellency's and such... I need to make a small note here. Each Faction has its own set of protocol guidelines. Some houses have elected not to use the fancier titles. It is my suggestion that if you're not clear on what your house is using, that you check your house's handbook or ask your fearless leader, your Faction Head, what you will be using there. Some may argue that they never once saw a single instance of 'Your Grace' in all the references to Duke Leto in the books, however... with such a complex and detailed caste system as exists in the Dune society, why wouldn't they have peerage, at least to some extent? Anyways, moving right along here..." Lilith says, "I'm not going to sit here and spout at you *all* the titles of peerage, their honorifics, what to call the children and family dog, etc. We'll hit the high spots in the interest of time and brevity, and on your own you can read up on it all in the protocol and diplomacy guide (now showing on a DuneIII web site near you)." Lilith says, "Before I get into the titles, though, I have to mention the Emperor. Our illustrious Padishah Emperor of the Known Universe is always, always, always (did I say always?) 'Your Imperial Majesty' or 'His Imperial Majesty'. We never say 'the Emperor' in IC conversation -- bad form. Very bad form, that. Now that does just apply to conversation. In your poses, it is perfectly fine to refer to 'the Emperor', it's conversation, the spoken part of your pose, which should absolutely use the honorific." Lilith says, "Those of high enough rank within the faufreluches, such as the Siridari, might could get away with 'Your Majesty' or 'His Majesty', but I'd say no one any lower could. And, while we're on the topic of the Imperial folks again, yes, folks, we do have an Empress now, too. She is also 'Your Imperial Majesty' or 'Her Imperial Majesty'." Lilith says, "And here is the peerage, in descending order of rank..." Duke/Duchess -- Your Grace or His or Her Grace, My Lord Duke or My Lady Duchess Marquis/Marquise -- Your Illustrious Excellency or Your Excellency, His Excellency or Her Excellency, My Lord Marquis or My Lady Marquise Earl -- Your Lordship/Ladyship or His Lordship/Her Ladyship, or My Lord Earl/The Lord Earl Count/Countess -- Your Excellency or His/Her Excellency, or My Lord Count/My Lady Countess Viscount/Viscountess -- Your Excellency or His/Her Excellency, or My Lord Viscount/My Lady Viscountess Baron/Baroness -- Your Lordship/Ladyship or His Lordship/Her Ladyship, or My Lord Baron/My Lady Baroness Emylie mutters to Layard, "... not ma'am " Lilith says, "And while we're on peerage, a few interesting things to note -- the plural of Siridar is Siridari, not Siridars. Heirs designate only use 'na-' when presented or announced formally. Otherwise, the form is not used in everyday speech or reference. There is no 'na-<title>' for House Minor nobility. House Minor nobles are addressed as 'Lord <name>' or 'Lady <name>' and My Lord or My Lady, and never 'Your Excellency' or 'Your Lordship'." Fahahd walks in from Lower Lobby through the Double Doors. Fahahd has arrived. Lilith says, "Artisans and other non-noble functionaries of a House might be styled 'Master' or 'Mistress'. It should be noted that in terms of theme, titles such as Mr., Ms., and Miss are not appropriate. A position of honor, such as a Bound Concubine, might be given the honorific 'Madame' as well, or even 'Lady'." Lilith takes a deep breath. "Have I lost anyone? That was a pretty detailed section! Are there any questions?" Acelin walks in from Lower Lobby through the Double Doors. Acelin has arrived. Lilith says, "Don't forget to page Galen to get into the question/comment queue..." Lilith says, "Layard, you're first!" Tazra has reconnected. Layard asks, "As far as the issue of members of the Royal Family or any royal family, if they have a coronating rank, like Duke or Marquis or Viscount...even though if they are not a Siridar, would you use the addresses as discussed previously. Such as for me, I am the Marquis Corrino...I could be addressed as 'His Illustrious Excellency?" Layard says, "And by other royal family, I mean Great House Family..." Tazra has partially disconnected. Galen has disconnected. Lilith says, "That's a really grey area. It depends on your relation, Layard, in the faufreluches. The Emperor's immediate family is on the same level with the Siridari, so if you're a member of that group I would say yes. However, if you're on the level with the houses minor, being in the extended family, I would say no... Does anyone else have an opinion to offer on that?" Erich says, "The way I have understood it, nobility, regardless of circumstances, are always referred to by the honorific of their specific title." Lilith says, "Well, then I'm going to say that bears more research on my part. I will double-check my sources, and clarify at a later date." Lilith says, "Sound ok with you, Layard?" Layard says, "Peachy keen." Lilith nods. "Good catch. Elsa is next.." Adrian_Malkary walks in from Lower Lobby through the Double Doors. Adrian_Malkary has arrived. Elsa says, "I would like to say something about the reference of the honorary title of Lady to Bound Concubines. As concubines to high nobles are often Bene Gesserit, the title Lady is already there as part of her role within the Sisterhood. Am I correct ?"" Tazra says, "If i may cut in here, A concubine is always referred to as Lady <first name>" Lilith nods. "But there are Bound Concubines who are not Bene Gesserit. So she would still have the honorific 'Lady', or 'Madame'." Elsa nods to Lilith. Lilith says, "If there are any other questions or comments, we're switching the queue over to Erich for the duration of the seminar. Unforeseen RL circumstances dictated that Galen leave us earlier than he had planned." Lilith says, "If there are none, we'll get right back on track again..." Lilith says, "Now that we know who gets called what (at least, in public. I don't want to know or find out that the favorite Harkonnen honorific for Boris is 'Hey, Snugglebug!'), we need to know when to do the other stuff, like bowing and scraping." Lilith pauses. "Asaf'nor? Want to sneak it in real quick...?" Asaf'nor says, "Sorry, I came in late, this may have been mentioned or we may still be getting to it but.."" Fahahd raises a hand. Who is it that we speak to to get into the queue? Erich says, "Me" Asaf'nor says, "How about addressing the children of Siridari or other titled nobles who do not have "special" titles yet themselves." Lilith points everyone to Erich. Tazra mutters hmmm Lilith says, "That is covered in the handbook, Asaf.." Lilith says, "In the interests of time, I wasn't planning on covering it here tonight." Lilith says, "And I'll take Fahahd's comment, and that's the last on honorifics... if you have anything else on this section, please hold it for the end." Asaf'nor says, "Ah. Missed those first pass. Found 'em." Asaf'nor says, "But Paul was refered to as 'Master' IIRC?" Ruhail says, "As is Ruhail's son. It always struck me is a title that one grows into." Fahahd looks contrite. I meant a comment for the end of the whole thing in general...not necessarily specific to this section. Though it could work here. Lilith points to the earlier disclaimer. "Houses may deviate slightly from this at points..." Lilith says, "Or, Fah, if you'd rather hold it for the end, we can certainly move on..." Lilith says, "No worries." Ravn walks in from Lower Lobby through the Double Doors. Ravn has arrived. Shane has disconnected. Asaf'nor says, "Kay."" Triste walks in from Lower Lobby through the Double Doors. Triste has arrived. Fahahd nods. Thanks. Lilith nods to Fahahd, and flips back through her notes. "Now... we were about to go into a new section... which was it... ah yes, bowing and scraping." Lilith says, "Protocol also governs entrances and exits, just as rigidly as everything else. Keep an eye peeled for scene poses, so that you know who is where with whom in a room. Those Siridari can be very touchy about how they are approached. You wouldn't want to cause a major diplomatic incident by walking in and then tackle-hugging Ophelia, now would you? I think her bodyguards might have a thing or two to say about that. Oh, and this is a little-known rule of etiquette... when approaching a Siridar, it is appropriate to await acknowledgement from that Siridar before speaking. When leaving the presence of a Siridar, permission to be excused (like we used to have to ask when we were kids, to leave the dinner table) is expected to be asked." Lilith says, "So, a tackle-hug is not an appropriate way to greet a noble. Not a good thing, nope. This is where the bowing and scraping comes in -- the men get to bow, and the ladies get to curtsy. That's spelled either 'curtsy' or 'curtsey', by the way. And there's also the oh-so-very useful 'regal nod', given to those of equal or lower rank." Lynna has disconnected. Augie has disconnected. Lilith says, "Here's a good way to remember who gets what in terms of obeisance: the higher the noble outranks you, the lower YOU, my friend, go to the floor. In terms of the Emperor, everyone gets to genuflect to him (lucky guy) -- this is where one knee hits the floor. If, say, a peasant or slave were being addressed by the Emperor, I'd say they'd be prostrate. That's where you are -all- the way on the floor, and I do mean all the way." Augie has connected. Lynna has connected. Lilith says, "A couple notes about obeisance..." Lilith says, "Not breaking eye contact with someone you are bowing to could signal mistrust, or a lack of respect." Ravn says, "Like.. lying on the floor in front of the emperor?" Ravn grins Erich says, "Kneeling until your forehead touches it. A proskynesis, as the Greeks called it." Lilith says, "Somewhat, Ravn. It's a kneeling position." Fahahd says, "think of how Muslims bow down to Mecca. Like that, isn't it?" Erich says, "Yep" Erich says, "Exactly the same." Layard nods, "If you have ever seen the Last Emperor...it is kind of like kow towing." Lilith says, "Just a little bit more before we get to another break for questions and comments, stay with me here folks... =)" Lilith says, "And in terms of weapons... Saluting with weapons should not be done, unless the receiver of the salute actually does own the weapon, such as one's Siridar, and it should only be done when the bearing of weapons is permitted. Naked blades in the Imperial Presence is strictly forbidden. I know I don't want to be skewered by a Noukker any time soon for drawing my weapon in Court." Lilith says, "It's time for some more small print about honor. I'll make this quick. Accidents and errors DO happen. A misplaced title or bow is certainly not grounds, however, for immediately calling someone out except and unless there are enough witnesses and/or evidence to assume the other person meant a direct offense." Lilith says, "For the sake of RP, please exercise tolerance. We shouldn't promote an atmosphere in which being called out is a real and constant danger during harmless and fun RP. Education is the key, and practice. Even more experienced players will make mistakes." Lilith says, "Any questions? Comments? Anyone? Buehler?" Erich hehs. Fahahd pokes his hand up here? Lilith says, "First up... Tazra" Elsa says, "For all late arrivals: Page Erich to get in qeue for questions and comments." Tazra says, "I have a question regarding weapons, so if the weapon was given to you by the nobelman you are adressing it's ok?" Tazra says, "to carry it i mean." Haroon walks in from Lower Lobby through the Double Doors. Haroon has arrived. Lilith says, "That's not entirely what I mean by 'owned', Tazra. I mean, if you've pledged the service of your weapon to your Siridar." Tazra says, "ok now i understand." Lilith nods. "Fahahd? You're up next..." Fahahd says, "Just a quick linguistic note, though I've not seen this used too often on here: thee and thou. Thee and thou are always singular, and familiar. In other words, nobody addresses the Emperor as 'thou' save perhaps the closest of his family in private situations. A noble can use thou to address his subordinates, retainers, etc, but not his peers. And it's never used to address a group." Lilith says, "I have actually never seen anyone use thee or thou on here." Lilith says, "But a good note to know anyways, thanks Fah. Adrian? You had a question or comment?" Fahahd has seen it used in correspondence ICly, for the msot part. Adrian_Malkary Looks up "I would like to know what is the comman bow if you dont know who someone is or have never met them? Such as you are just now meeting a duke for the first time." Erich says, "Call me 'thee' or 'thou' or anything else familiar and I'll shove you in a pain amplifier. ;)" Lilith says, "This is covered in detail in the protocol guide, on the DuneIII web site, Adrian. The Dancer's Bow is a good, neutral bow to use if you're unsure of someone else's station in relation to your own. To describe it: You bend from the waist, one hand tucked at the abdomen and the other hand in the small of the back, eyes straight forward as the head dips naturally. However, if the person you're being introduced to is of a higher rank than you, and if you KNOW it, you would likely use the 'Deep Bow'. Remember, the further apart in the rank you are, the lower the person doing the bowing goes." Lilith says, "Was there anything else, Adrian?" Adrian_Malkary says "Nope that was it thanks." Lilith says, "I believe Triste is next..." Acelin has disconnected. Triste says, "You mentioned 'calling out' when someone deliberately does not uses proper protocol. What exactly is that?" Lilith says, "Triste is the last for this round of questions or comments, by the way. After him, we'll move on to the next section. If we missed you, please hang on to your thought till the end." Lilith says, "Calling out, as in, challenge to a duel." Triste nods. "Thanks." Lilith noddles. "No problem..." Lilith says, "We're going to jump now into diplomacy. Everyone, at some point, has found themselves in the position of doing a little diplomacy work, whether they are a diplomat or not. I think everyone should have a basic idea of what a diplomat does (weaseling is not a complete picture), just like everyone knows what a Mentat, Suk, or Swordmaster does." Lilith says, "There are different ranks within the diplomatic corps, just as there are within the military. Some houses use these ranks, some do not. This is another one of those things you'd have to check with your fac-head on. Those ranks include Ambassador, Diplomat, Junior Diplomat, and then the usual parade of Diplomatic Aides, Clerks, and Secretaries. Generally, it is through training and experience that one moves up in the diplomatic corps. Do not expect to see a twenty-something Ambassador. A twenty-something Junior Diplomat, sure. But Ambassadors -should- have the wisdom of experience and time under their belts. Theoretically." Lilith says, "Diplomats should also know their stuff. There are certain things diplomats should always be up on -- things about the house, the economy, who does what, who has what title, etc. Diplomats should know who's on their Siridar's list, and where on that little list they fall. The politics of the house are key. You wouldn't want to be, say, caught socializing with a pretty young Ginaz lass in the Lounge when you're a Moritani rogue and your Houses are knee-deep in Kanly still. Talk about your career-limiting moves, folks. Woo-boy!" Lilith says, "Diplomats should also know when to talk, and when not to. Drinks in the Lounge is all good and well for happy hour, but this is not the time or place to be doing delicate, critical negotiations. And what's the point in going to all that trouble for talks and negotiations, only to ruin it with a bad etiquette blunder when on the other team's home turf? Well, unless you like the trouble you'll be in, of course. Oh, and do remember one small thing... do not assault the members of other houses, or their property. Breaking vases and chairs just isn't cool. Don't break slaves, either. They are property." Lilith says, "Always remember... GuildMail is your friend. When assigned to another house as a diplomat or ambassador, etiquette dictates a 'hey, here I am, hello!' letter. And don't forget your introductions either. Newly-arrived nobles and high-ranking functionaries should always make the rounds. Not to mention, this guarantees RP for you, at least at first until folks realize that little problem with the teeth." Lilith says, "And that's all I have to say about that... let's open the floor up for questions and comments." Lilith says, "Tazra? You get in first..." Elsa has reconnected. Elsa has partially disconnected. Tazra says, "Is there some type of publication of relationships between houses out there other than checking each house's website?" Tazra says, "Such as declarations of WOA and such?" Lilith says, "Each Faction Head has published their stances towards other houses in their own house handbooks, yes. You can also speak with individual Heads if you have questions about their stances." Tazra says, "which channel should i take to talk with them OOC or IC?" Lilith says, "You can page or @mail them, or if they're on <Public> or <Newbie> you can ask there." Lilith says, "Page or @mail might be best, though." Tazra says, "ok, thats good to know, thanks!" Lilith says, "Ravn is next.." Ravn says, "Some of... No wait, most of the House Handbooks are horrible out of date.. do the Fraction still have the same view on each other? Years after they where written?" Lilith says, "Actually... I beg to differ on that..." Ravn erfs? Lilith says, "Moritani, Alvstad, Harkonnen are up to date. Rastanyev and Ginaz are about to be posted." Lilith says, "Corrino is also on the way." Ruhail says, "And Bajazet is soon to be done." Lilith nods. "We just got a new player for Ruhail, so, he gets a little extra time to get his together." Ruhail salutes. Lilith says, "There are also links to the houses from the web site now, those houses who have web sites." Haroon says, "Still though, policies shift quite quickly - probably faction handbooks. Is it reasonable to assume that diplomats have a degree of OOC knowledge that they may not have had chance to RP and get?" Haroon says, "Sorry, faster than faction handbooks I meant" Lilith says, "It's on the shoulders of house heads to keep their diplomatic staff in tune, as far as IC info goes. I would not suggest that diplomats are permitted to use OOC knowledge. That's just not kosher." Lilith says, "GuildMail, when you don't have time to RP, is a great tool for disseminating information." Lilith says, "Martin? You have a comment?" Anatole walks in from Lower Lobby through the Double Doors. Anatole has arrived. Martin nods. "I would also like to point out that reading the archives for new players help in showing the current politics. Lilith nods. "Excellent point." Lilith says, "Does anyone have a question or comment that got skipped earlier?" Elsa raises a hand. Erich says, "Elsa does" Lilith grins. "Ok.. Elsa!" Elsa says, "Three, in fact. 2 questions and a comment." Tazra Raises hand Lilith says, "After Elsa, I think we'll open things up for general discussion and commentary... in other words... *poof* goes the queue. Thanks for your help, Erich. =)" Lilith says, "Elsa has the floor till she's done then!" Tazra lowers hand and sighs Elsa says, "Ok; First a comment about the last subject we covered. I would like this opportunity to stress that the Bene Gesserit are /not/ regarded as witches here expect perhaps by the Imperial Church. Now for my 2 questions..." Elsa says, "My question is, referring back to the first section of this seminar, on Faufreluches: When someone is of noble birth, but is not aware of it, does his or her noble status count only from the moment it is officially recognized, or before that as well ? Say, a noble has a right to claim a minor House. However, he/she is not aware of it, and the House changes lords. When this person finds out ten years later that he or she actually had the right to claim rulership over that House then, will it be recognized a valid claim ten years later, or does the Faufreluches demand that the title be recognized ten years earlier to hold stake ?" Lilith nods. "Absolutely, Elsa. There's a mystique there, we don't know, at this point in the theme, just what the Bene Gesserit are about. We just know they can be darn helpful." Lilith says, "I'd say that appropriate documentation would have to be provided, as with everything, Elsa. There have been instances here before of things being reversed due to a "sudden" discovery of someone else's legitimate right to inherit." Lilith says, "But as for the noble status... if it's not known, it's not known. When the documentation to prove it is provided, then sure, it should be." Elsa says, "Thank you Lilith...and my last question:" Lilith noddles. Elsa says, "My question is, referring back to the section covering the Imperial Presence: Is there any way/situation in which a meeting with the Emperor can be /in/formal unless you are in his Harem ? In /any/ situation, you are not to look directly into his eyes unless specifically granted this by him? ( "You are allowed to look at me") Aren't there situations thinkable in discussions where it is in fact highly improper or against etiquette not to look at him when you speak to him ?" Lilith passes that to Erich. Erich says, "There are instances where the Emperor insists on informality. For instance, if he receives you in one of the smaller audience chambers, in his own chamber, Harem, or pretty much anywhere in the Palace save for the Selamlik, he's likely to request that you 'stand down' and do away with the obsequeties. It's going to differ from Emperor to Emperor, but Erich only insists on ceremony and stolid ritual where they're useful. :)" Tazra says, "One quick question, will transcripts be available for this lecture, and how would I obtain one?" Ravn says, "That would cost you" Tazra laughs Lilith says, "Elsa, does that cover everything for you?" Elsa says, "Thank you, Erich. Indeed it does Lilith." Erich winks and nods. "You're most welcome." Lilith notes that she hadn't taken the floor back from Elsa yet... "But to answer your question, Tazra, a log of this will be sent out the -readers listserv, which is archived on the web site in case you miss the email. And now... the floor is everyone's." Smurf has arrived. Tazra drops Smurf. Ravn says, "Yay! Spamfeast!" Erich should take the opportunity to shamelessly plug, and note that if you're interested in experiencing House Corrino in its most inner and intriguing state, we are looking for a few good Corrinos. ;D Smurf has left. Layard adds, "Especially concubines." Tazra says, "Erich, i might be interested" Lilith grins. "It's good to be the Emperor." Fahahd stumps for House Harkonnen, as well - if you're into decadence, depravity, and cunning, we're the place. Tazra says, "Erich, it depends, see i'm trying to get as fast as i can into RP, do you have any spots for diplomats or the like?" Ruhail says, "Bajazet posse yo!" Erich says, "Take it to page, Tazra. No need to spam these fine folks." Haroon says, "A lil action in the phattest faction *hi-5s Ru*" Lilith says, "We're still kinda discussing protocol and diplomacy..." Ravn says, "Fine? He isent talking about us is he?" Lilith gives Erich a stern look. Ruhail says, "w3rd." Lynna pokes Lay and Erich and shakes her head. Marco has disconnected. Lilith says, "Alright. Then we're not discussing protocol and diplomacy... Spam away!" Slade walks in from Lower Lobby through the Double Doors. Slade has arrived. Ophelia stops her log right *here* then! Lynna snugs Lilith, "But think everyone was good for hours.